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The Mentor Effect: Why Professionals Can’t Afford to Skip It

Mentorship: A Timeless Concept

Mentorship is the buzzword now. However, here’s the thing — mentorship isn’t a new concept. It’s been around for centuries. You may ask, how?

Simple. Back in the day, students had a guru — a guide, a mentor — who trained them not just in academics but in strategy, warfare, administration, and team building. Mentorship was holistic, purpose-driven, and deeply rooted in shaping character and potential.

Chanakya, one of the finest examples of a mentor in Indian history. Photo source: TV9telegu
Chanakya, one of the finest examples of a mentor in Indian history. Photo source: TV9telegu

Chanakya and Chandragupta: The Mentor Who Shaped an Empire

Take Chanakya, for instance. One of the finest examples of a mentor in Indian history. His priceless mentorship and strategic guidance gave rise to Chandragupta Maurya — a young boy with potential — who went on to become one of the most prolific rulers of ancient India. That’s the power of a good mentor.

The Macaulay Shift: From Gurukuls to Grades

However, the Macaulay system of education was introduced by the British. It was never meant to nurture brilliance or creativity — it was specifically designed to produce clerks who could serve the empire’s administrative machinery.

The Macaulay Shift: From Gurukuls to Grades. Photo source: India Today
The Macaulay Shift: From Gurukuls to Grades. Photo source: India Today

From Gurukul to Grades: The Corporate Aftermath

Slowly, our profound Gurukul system was replaced with one that prioritised rote learning, exam scores, and a narrow definition of success. Over time, this mindset seeped into our modern education and corporate systems — which explains why so many brilliant minds today feel undervalued, simply because they don’t tick all the boxes of a rigid, one-size-fits-all framework.

The Corporate Aftermath - Lost Dreams and Unfulfilled Aspiration. Image by Franz Bachinger from Pixabay
The Corporate Aftermath – Lost Dreams and Unfulfilled Aspiration. Image by Franz Bachinger from Pixabay

Lost Dreams and Unfulfilled Aspiration

Most of us, raised in this system, entered the workforce, often carrying the weight of choices we never fully owned. You may have wanted to pursue art but chose finance because it offered stability. Perhaps you dreamed of becoming a veterinarian, a soldier, or a musician — but never pursued those paths because they weren’t considered “practical” or “mainstream.” And in doing so, we lost ourselves. We buried our passions, our dreams — not because we weren’t capable, but because we didn’t know how to nurture or navigate them in a world that didn’t always value them. We were never taught how to master what we loved.

You dreamed of becoming a soldier, but never pursued it because they weren’t considered “practical” or “mainstream.” Photo credit: Pixabay

Personal Story: Breaking the Mold

I’ll give you a personal example. I wasn’t academically brilliant — but I loved art, I was a budding athlete, and I dreamt of joining the Indian Army. But growing up in a city like Mumbai, where trade, business and profit ruled the narrative, choosing Humanities in school was almost scandalous. My 10th-grade teachers told me I’d “ruined” my future — that nothing would come of me. But deep down, I knew I was meant for something more. If I couldn’t join the Indian Army, I knew I’d carve my path in writing and creativity — even if it wasn’t understood or celebrated at the time. I had no one to turn to for advice (of course, I had my father, but after his retirement from the army in the early ’80s, things had changed regarding current perspectives for women in the armed forces) and since I worked on it mostly on my own, despite going for the Services Selection Board (SSB) in Bhopal, and making it through the initial rounds, I did not get through.

Why Mentorship Matters

And with the right mentorship — as I’ve shared in my earlier piece about evolving as a writer — I found the courage to become a journalist, a children’s author, and a creative entrepreneur. Mentorship helped me believe in myself. I realised that choosing Sociology in Humanities was a fabulous choice for someone who likes to think outside the box, has critical thinking skills, and wants a broader perspective.

Why do we need mentors? Because they help bridge the gap between what you do and what your heart truly desires. Image by Tumisu from Pixabay

Finding the Right Mentor

So, coming back to the question — why do we need mentors? Because they help bridge the gap between what you do and what your heart truly desires. Whether it’s music, dance, art, or sport — mentorship enables you to realign, rediscover, and never second-guess your worth. Mentorship helps you create that delicate balance – as it is not always that you can make a lucrative profession out of a passion, but a mainstream career can help you keep your passion afloat. Mentorship enables you to avoid wallowing in self-doubt, pity, or resentment; it encourages you to see possibilities and opportunities and fosters faith in yourself.

If you’re at those crossroads or feeling stuck or unenergetic at work or at a personal stage in life where you want to turn things around, a dedicated mentorship is just the nudge that you need.

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Tanya Munshi: Writing Mentor & Coach. Founder of The Write Compass, Art for the Soul and The Lifestyle Portal

Tanya Munshi

Writing Mentor & Coach. Founder of The Write Compass, Art for the Soul and The Lifestyle Portal

NLP Master Practitioner, Certified Art Therapist

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